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  • 7 Habits that make you sound calm, confident in any conversation

    7 Habits that make you sound calm, confident in any conversation

    Effective communication can help you build strong connections and leave a positive impression. Being calm and confident while speaking makes people trust and respect you more.

    Here are 7 habits to help you sound more confident in any conversation:

     

    1. Maintain Eye Contact:

    Looking someone in the eye while speaking shows that you are engaged and confident. Avoid staring, but try to maintain natural eye contact to show that you are present.

     

    2. Speak Clearly and Slowly:

    Rushing your words can make you sound nervous. Take your time, speak clearly, and use a steady pace. Pausing occasionally also helps you collect your thoughts.

     

    3. Use Simple Language:

    You don’t need big words to sound smart. Simple, clear language helps you communicate your message effectively. Avoid filler words like “um,” “like,” or “you know.”

     

    4. Listen Actively:

    Confidence is not just about speaking — it’s also about listening. Show genuine interest in what others are saying, nod when appropriate, and ask thoughtful questions.

     

     5. Control Your Body Language:

    Your body speaks even when your mouth doesn’t. Keep an open posture, avoid crossing your arms, and use gentle hand gestures to express yourself.

     

    6. Stay Calm Under Pressure:

    When faced with tough questions or criticism, take a deep breath before responding. Staying calm shows that you are in control and can handle difficult situations.

     

    7.  Practice Positive Self-Talk:

    Before important conversations, remind yourself of your strengths. Believe that you have something valuable to share. This mindset will reflect in your voice and attitude.

     

    Conclusion:

    Confidence is a skill you can develop with practice. By applying these habits, you can appear calm, confident, and approachable in any conversation. Communication is not just about what you say but how you say it. Practice these habits, and you’ll see the difference!

  • 8 Things you don’t owe anyone explanation for

    8 Things you don’t owe anyone explanation for

    In life, it’s natural to feel like you need to justify your choices to others. However, there are certain aspects of your life that are personal and should not require an explanation.

    Here are 8 things you don’t owe anyone an explanation for:

     

    1. Your Life Choices :

    Whether it’s your career, relationships, or lifestyle, your choices are yours alone. As long as they don’t harm others, you don’t need to justify them.

     

    2. Your Priorities :

    How you choose to spend your time, energy, and resources is up to you. If you prioritize family over work or self-care over socializing, that’s your decision.

     

    3. Your Beliefs and Values :

    What you believe in and what you value are part of who you are. You don’t need to defend your beliefs to others.

     

    4. Your Personal Boundaries: 

    Setting boundaries is essential for your well-being. If you decide to say no to someone or something, you don’t need to explain why.

     

    5.  Your Financial Decisions:

    How you choose to spend or save your money is your business. No one else has the right to judge or question your financial choices.

     

    6. Your Relationship Status:

    Whether you’re single, married, divorced, or in a relationship, your relationship status is your personal matter. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for it.

     

    7.  Your Appearance:

    Your body, your style, your hair — they are yours to embrace. You don’t need to explain why you look the way you do.

     

    8. Your Past:

    Everyone has a past, and it doesn’t define your present or future. You don’t have to share your past experiences unless you choose to.

     

    Conclusion  :

    Remember, you have the right to live your life according to your own values and desires. Respecting yourself means not feeling pressured to explain your choices to others.

     

    By understanding these boundaries, you can protect your peace and maintain healthy relationships with those around you.

  • NELFUND disburses over N72m student loans to three schools

    NELFUND disburses over N72m student loans to three schools

    The Nigerian Education Loan Fund has disbursed more than N72 million in student loans across three tertiary schools, benefiting 1,607 students.

    The Federal College of Education in Obudu, Abdulkadir Kure University in Minna, and Adamawa State University in Mubi were all given the grant, which was intended to lessen the financial strain of tuition fees.

    NELFUND reiterated its dedication to helping students at Nigerian postsecondary institutions in a statement released on Tuesday.

    “This disbursement is a testament to President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s commitment to improving access to education and reducing financial barriers for students across the country,” the statement read.

    According to NELFUND, the Federal College of Education, Obudu, received a total of N21,789,500, disbursed in two tranches.

    The first batch, released in October 2024, amounted to N14,320,500 for 215 students, while the second batch of N7,469,000 was disbursed on March 5, 2025, benefiting 107 students.

    Abdulkadir Kure University, Minna, received N2,900,000 to cover tuition fees for nine students.

    In an acknowledgment letter signed by the institution’s registrar, Dr. Garba Abdullahi, the university confirmed receipt of the funds and expressed appreciation for the initiative.

    Adamawa State University, Mubi, received the highest allocation of N47,621,121, benefiting 1,283 students.

    The institution’s acting Vice-Chancellor, Dr. Ibrahim Bwatanglang, acknowledged the disbursement and expressed hope for continued collaboration with NELFUND in subsequent batches.

    The management of the Federal College of Education, Obudu, commended NELFUND for the successful implementation of the initiative.

    In a letter signed by the Provost, Dr. Richard Utubaku, and the Bursar, Joseph Ogar, the institution stated, “This is a testament to President Tinubu’s relentless efforts in repositioning the Nigerian education system at all levels. We sincerely commend NELFUND for the smooth and transparent disbursement process.”

    Similarly, Abdulkadir Kure University expressed gratitude for the intervention, noting that it had significantly eased financial difficulties for its students.

    Adamawa State University, in its statement, assured NELFUND of its commitment to ensuring the proper utilisation of the funds. The institution also requested an approved list of shortlisted beneficiaries for the second batch.

    NELFUND reiterated its dedication to ensuring that no qualified Nigerian student is denied access to higher education due to financial constraints.

    “We remain steadfast in our mission to provide financial support to students in tertiary institutions across the country. This is only the beginning, as more disbursements will follow in the coming months to ensure a wider reach,” the statement read.

  • US Defence Secretary calls Europe ‘pathetic’ in air strike chat accidentally shared with reporter

    US Defence Secretary calls Europe ‘pathetic’ in air strike chat accidentally shared with reporter

    Trump’s top national security officials laid bare their disdain for Europe in a top-secret group chat that was leaked when a journalist was mistakenly added to the conversation.

    “I fully share your loathing of European free-loading. It’s pathetic” — this is how US Defence Secretary Pete Hegseth described the continent in what should have been a confidential group chat made up of the Trump administration’s national security heavyweights.

    The contents of the chat — which included US Defence Secretary Pete Hegseth, Vice President JD Vance, Secretary of State Marco Rubio and Michael Waltz, Trump’s national security adviser — were leaked by the editor-in-chief of The Atlantic, who found himself added to the discussion, likely by accident.

    In the chat, which the US National Security Council said “appears to be authentic”, the group discussed planned strikes on Iran-backed Houthi rebels in Yemen, which commenced hours later.

    Aside from top-secret operational information on strikes, the chat also laid bare US disdain for Europe, which Vance first articulated during his speech at the Munich Security Conference.

    In the leaked conversation conducted on the Signal app, unauthorised for classified official conversations, Vance said how much he hated “bailing Europe again”, claiming that the strikes on Houthis and the subsequent unblocking of trade routes would benefit Europe most.

    “Three per cent of US trade runs through the Suez. 40% of European trade does. There is a real risk that the public doesn’t understand this or why it’s necessary,” the US vice president said at the start of the discussion.

    “I am not sure the president is aware how inconsistent this is with his message on Europe right now,” Vance continued, arguing that strikes on Houthis should be delayed for a month.

    Later in the conversation, Waltz criticised the limited capabilities of European navies.

    “It will have to be the United States that reopens these shipping lanes. Per the president’s request we are working with DOD and State to determine how to compile the cost associated and levy them on the Europeans,” Trump’s national security advisor said.

    Hegseth responded, saying, “I fully share your loathing of European free-loading. It’s pathetic.”

    Other officials added that the US should clearly state to Egypt and Europe “what we expect in return”. An account claiming to be White House Chief of Staff Steve Miller commented, “We also need to figure out how to enforce such a requirement. For example, if Europe doesn’t remunerate, then what?”

    ‘Trying to pick a fight’

    The US vice president first stunned European leaders at the Munich Security Conference in mid-February, where he claimed Europe should be scared of the “enemy from within” and launched a blistering criticism of the continent’s media censorship laws.

    EU foreign policy chief Kaja Kallas said Vance was “trying to pick a fight” with Europe after his speech in Munich.

    “Listening to that speech, they try to pick a fight with us and we don’t want to a pick a fight with our friends,” Kallas said at the time.

    Vance also courted controversy early in March when he described the UK and France as “some random country that hasn’t fought a war in 30 or 40 years” in the context of Ukraine ceasefire negotiations, despite both countries having fought alongside the US in Afghanistan.

    Hegseth’s comments align with other public remarks the defence secretary has made about the US unfairly supporting Europe, such as his words in February that Washington “no longer tolerates an imbalanced relationship” with its allies.

    Trump has taken a tough stance against Europe even before being re-elected to the White House. The US president has accused the European Union of taking advantage of the US and threatened to slap 200% tariffs on alcohol made on the continent in an ongoing trade war.

    He has also riled European allies by claiming the US should take over Greenland, a territory of EU member Denmark, and appearing to adopt the Kremlin’s rhetoric on Russia’s war in Ukraine in a much-publicised spat with his Ukrainian counterpart Volodymyr Zelenskyy at the Oval Office.

    [euronews]

  • Chinese electric carmaker BYD sales beat Tesla

    Chinese electric carmaker BYD sales beat Tesla

    Chinese electric vehicle maker BYD has reported annual revenue for 2024 that has leapfrogged rival Tesla.

    The Shenzhen-based firm says revenue rose by 29% to come in at 777 billion yuan ($107bn; £83bn), boosted by sales of its hybrid vehicles. This topped the $97.7bn reported by Elon Musk’s Tesla.

    BYD has also just launched a lower-priced car to rival Tesla’s Model 3, which has long been the top selling electric vehicle (EV) in China.

    It comes as Tesla faces a backlash around the world over Musk’s ties to US President Donald Trump, while Chinese carmakers have been hit with tariffs in Western countries.

    BYD sold around the same number of EVs as Tesla last year – 1.76 million compared to 1.79 million, respectively.

    But when sales of the Chinese company’s hybrid cars are taken into account it is much bigger, selling a record 4.3 million vehicles globally in 2024.

    On Sunday, BYD announced a new model to take on Tesla.

    Its Qin L model has a starting price in China of 119,800 yuan, while a basic version of Tesla’s Model 3 is priced at 235,500 yuan.

    It comes as Chinese consumers are cutting spending in the face of economic challenges, including a property crisis, slowing growth, and high local government debt.

    Last week, BYD’s founder Wang Chuanfu announced new battery charging technology, which he said could charge an EV in five minutes.

    That compares with around 15 minutes to charge a Tesla using its supercharger system.

    In February, BYD announced that its so-called “God’s Eye” advanced driver-assistance technology would be available free in all its models.

    Shares in the firm, which is backed by veteran US investor Warren Buffett, have jumped by more than 50% so far this year.

    A backlash against Musk and his carmaker has gathered momentum since he was appointed head of the Trump administration’s Department for Government Efficiency (DOGE), which has been tasked with slashing federal government spending.

    Musk has also intervened in politics abroad, including giving his backing to far-right party Alternative für Deutschland ahead of Germany’s parliamentary election and criticising UK politicians such as Prime Minister Keir Starmer.

    Meanwhile, China’s EV manufacturers have been targeted with tariffs in large parts of the world, including the US and the European Union.

  • Brisbane to build 63,000-seater stadium for 2032 Olympic Games

    Brisbane to build 63,000-seater stadium for 2032 Olympic Games

    A new 63,000-seater stadium will be built in Brisbane as the centrepiece of the 2032 Olympic and Paralympic Games, the Queensland government has announced.

    The multi-sport arena, to be built in the Victoria Park area of Brisbane, will host the opening and closing ceremonies, as well as the athletics.

    The plans will see the new stadium become Brisbane’s home for cricket, with the famous Gabba stadium to be demolished following the Games.

    The decision, announced by Queensland Premier David Crisafulli, comes following numerous pledges before the 2024 state elections that a new stadium would not be built.

    “I have to own that, and I will. I am sorry, it’s my decision, and I accept that decision,” said Crisafulli.

    The government had toyed with plans to redevelop the Gabba – which was built in 1895 and has staged 67 men’s Test matches – but those plans were scrapped following a 100-day review into planning for 2032.

    Cricket, which is being held in Los Angeles in 2028 and is likely to be retained in 2032, could be played at the Gabba before the arena is torn down.

    “Wouldn’t it be amazing to see the Australian cricket team win gold at an Olympic final? The Gabba’s swansong,” Crisafulli said.

    “The Gabba is at its end of life. It hasn’t been well maintained, and we do need a stadium to host this great show, and there is an opportunity for legacy play.”

    Queensland Cricket backed the plans, with chief executive Terry Svenson saying the arena had been a “wonderful venue” but its challenges were “well documented”.

    A new 25,000-seater national aquatic centre will be built in Spring Hill near the main stadium, while a new 20,000-seater arena is planned near the main athletes village.

    The rowing will be held in Queensland’s Fitzroy River, which is known to host saltwater crocodiles but the government says the waters are safe.

    “If it’s good enough for central Queensland kids, I reckon it’s good enough for Pierre from Paris,” said Crisafulli.

    The Brisbane Queensland Tennis Centre will receive significant upgrades in order to host tennis events.

    ‘It’s a political backflip’

    Speaking to BBC World Service, ABC reporter Arianna Levy said the plans to build a stadium in Victoria Park are controversial because the site holds “cultural significance” to aboriginal people.

    “It really has come as a political backflip.” said Levy on Tuesday.

    “It’s been really polarising for a lot of the community here in Queensland.

    “The main stadium in Victoria Park, which will host 63,000 seats, it’s one of the few green sites across Brisbane and it holds cultural significance to the indigenous people of Brisbane, the Turrbal people. They call the place the Barrambin.

    “It was a native camping ground and food-gathering place. It had First Nations people from across Queensland gather all over the place for corroboree, which is the traditional dance for First Nations people.

    “There were protests today. There were communities that were against the development of the park to turn it into a stadium. We do imagine in the days to come there will be fallout from community groups and stakeholders that feel like this plan is not the best plan going forward.”

    [BBC]

  • Ex-Tottenham defender Vertonghen to retire

    Former Tottenham Hotspur and Belgium defender Jan Vertonghen will retire from professional football at the end of the season.

    The Anderlecht captain, 37, made 315 appearances for Spurs between 2012 and 2020 – twice being named in the PFA Premier League Team of the Year – as well as helping the club reach the Champions League final in 2019.

    He retired from international football last year as the record appearance holder for Belgium with 157 caps.

    Injury has limited the centre-back to just five games for Anderlecht this season.

    “I have noticed that it is becoming more and more difficult to prepare myself physically for training sessions and matches and to show myself as the player I want to be,” he said.

    “Not only towards the fans and my fellow players, but also towards myself. That is why I will be stopping after this season.”

    Vertonghen joined Spurs from Ajax, where he won the Eredivisie and Dutch Cup twice, and after leaving north London he won the Portuguese league with Benfica.

    [BBC]

  • Ex-FIFA chief Sepp Blatter, Michel Platini cleared of corruption

    Former FIFA president Sepp Blatter and celebrated French footballer Michel Platini have been cleared of corruption charges relating to allegations of fraud at the global footballing body.

    An appeals court in Muttenz, near Basel in Switzerland, on Tuesday cleared the two of impropriety over a payment of 2m Swiss francs (£1.6m) Blatter made to Platini in 2011. Both men have consistently denied wrongdoing.

    The two were first acquitted of fraud offences in 2022, but the verdict was appealed by Swiss federal prosecutors.

    The long-running case stems from 2015, when Fifa became mired in allegations of fraud and corruption, culminating in a dramatic raid in Zurich resulting from a separate US probe.

    The scandal, the biggest in football history, involved collusion between officials from the governing bodies and sports marketing executives, with fraud, bribery, racketeering and money laundering offences committed.

    It forced Blatter to resign and ended Platini’s hopes of succeeding him as the head of Fifa.

    Swiss prosecutors then accused Blatter, now 89, and Platini, 69, of deceiving Fifa over the payment to Platini, alleging forgery and fraud. They said the payment had “no legal basis”.

    Both men argued the transfer was a belated payment for advisory work Platini – who had previously served as president of European footballing body Uefa – had done for Fifa.

    In his testimony at the first trial, Blatter said that he had asked Platini to work as his adviser in 1998. He added that, at the time, Fifa could not afford the 1m Swiss francs annual fee requested by Platini.

    They instead agreed on a reduced annual fee of 300,000 francs, with the rest paid later on.

    Switzerland’s federal criminal court in Bellinzona cleared the two, accepting they had a “gentlemen’s agreement” over the payment. Federal prosecutors appealed the decision, leading to the new hearing.

    Speaking to reporters following Tuesday’s verdict, Blatter said: “Finally, the court has dispensed justice and for me, my family and my friends. This is a big thing.”

    He added: “I’m full of emotion right now.”

    Platini told reporters his “persecution” was “now totally over”, adding: “Today, my honour has returned and I am very happy.”

    Platini’s lawyer has said they are now planning legal action against those responsible for the criminal proceedings.

    “The Office of the Attorney General has not managed to find a single piece of incriminating evidence for over 10 years,” Dominic Nellen said in a statement. “These proceedings were not justified and should never have been conducted.”

    Platini had an illustrious playing career and is a three-time winner of the Ballon d’Or – Europe’s highest individual football award.

    He captained France to victory at the 1984 European Championship and won the 1985 European Cup with Juventus. He went on to coach the French national team and served as Uefa president from 2007 until 2015.

    Blatter, originally a Swiss businessman and sports administrator, joined Fifa in 1975, rising through the body’s ranks to become its general secretary in 1981 and president in 1998.

    [BBC]

  • Senate confirms appointment of Ayogu as CBN board director

    Senate confirms appointment of Ayogu as CBN board director

    The Senate formally approved Professor Melvin D. Ayogu’s appointment to the Central Bank of Nigeria Board of Directors, On Tuesday.

    An Enugu State native, Ayogu teaches economics at the University of Cape Town in South Africa.

    The Senate Committee on Banking, Insurance, and Other Financial Institutions, chaired by Senator Adetokunbo Abiru (APC, Lagos East), heard the presentation and then approved the nomination.

    On behalf of Abiru, who has left the nation for Umrah, Senator Osita Izunaso (APC, Imo West) delivered the report.

    Izunaso said, “The Senate has received and considered the report of the Committee on Banking, Insurance & Other Financial Institutions regarding the confirmation of the nomination of Prof. Melvin Damian Ayogu for appointment as a member of the Board of Directors of the Central Bank of Nigeria.”

    The confirmation comes one week after President Bola Tinubu submitted a request to the Senate for Ayogu’s confirmation as a member of the board of the apex bank.

    In a letter read by Senate President Godswill Akpabio during plenary, President Tinubu stated, “In compliance with Section 10(1) of the Central Bank of Nigeria (Establishment) Act, 2007, I am pleased to present, for confirmation by the Senate, the appointment of Prof. Melvin D. Ayogu as a member of the Board of Directors of the Central Bank of Nigeria. His Curriculum Vitae is attached for your review.”

    The President further emphasised that the nomination was in line with Section 6 of the CBN Act, 2007, which outlines the composition of the CBN Board of Directors.

  • Man allegedly kills fiancee, three-year-old daughter in Edo, Police commence investigation

    Man allegedly kills fiancee, three-year-old daughter in Edo, Police commence investigation

    A shocking double homicide has rocked Edo State as Wealth Nnamdi stands accused of killing his soon-to-be bride and her three-year-old daughter.

    The gruesome incident reportedly occurred on March 18, according to Edo State Police Command spokesperson CSP Moses Joel Yamu.

    In a tragic twist, police revealed the suspect had been preparing to marry the victim this Saturday, March 29. Authorities have not yet determined whether a domestic dispute preceded the violent attack.

    However, the Command’s spokesman said, “Ekiadolor Division received a report from a concerned neighbour of the deceased that he is perceiving an offensive odour from his neighbour’s room located at Idiangbona Street of Ovbiogoe Community.”

    The statement read, “The Edo State Police Command has since commenced investigation into the gruesome murder of a woman popularly known as ‘Mama Hallelujah’ and her three 3-year-old daughter named ‘Miracle.”

    “On the strength of the report, the DPO Ekiadolor led operatives to the area where the odour emanated from; however, they discovered that it was locked from outside. The room was forced open, and the decomposing bodies of the woman with an injury that appears to be a machete cut on her head and her baby on the bed were discovered.

    “During preliminary investigation, all fingers pointed at her live-in lover, simply identified as Wealth Nnamdi, whose wedding with the deceased mother of one was set for 29/03/2025.

    “The suspect has since gone underground since the discovery, as the command is doing everything possible to ensure the arrest of the fleeing suspect.”