[LOVERS’ CORNER] 7 hot moves your partner really finds irresistible in bed

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If you’re wondering how to please a man in bed, here’s the truth: it’s not about performing like a star or pulling off acrobatic moves that require a chiropractor on standby. It’s about tuning into what he craves, mentally, emotionally, and physically, and making him feel desired like he’s the sexiest man alive.

In fact, research shows that sexual satisfaction in men is closely linked to feeling emotionally connected, respected, and seen by their partner, not just to how wild the sex is.

Here are seven moves and attitudes that many men find particularly irresistible in bed, according to relationship and sex experts

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  • Take control: Initiate sex, guide his hands, or get on top. This shows confidence and desire, which can be a huge turn-on.
  • Use your mouth (dirty talk): Whisper what you want him to do to you, describe what you’re doing to him, or simply praise him in the moment. Verbal arousal adds a strong mental layer of connection.
  • Show your enthusiasm (responsiveness):Let him know you are aroused with your body language and sounds. Moaning, breathing heavily, and moving your body responsively can drive him wild.
  • Focus on his pleasure spots: Pay special attention to erogenous zones beyond the obvious, such as the nape of his neck, inner thighs, or nipples. Experiment with different types of touch to see what works best for him.
  • Maintain eye contact: Locking eyes during sex can enhance both the emotional and physical connection, making the experience more intense and intimate.
  • Be confident: Men often find a partner’s self-assuredness incredibly sexy. Focus on enjoying yourself and letting go of inhibitions.
  • Break the routine: Surprise him by trying new positions, new locations, or incorporating an element of light roughness or role-play. Novelty and open-mindedness can keep the passion alive. 
Ultimately, the most important thing is open communication. Talking with your partner about what feels good and what fantasies you share is key to a satisfying sex life for both of you.