Not all friendship meet ups start at fancy places like beach fronts, expensive hotel lounges, first class flight seats and other breathtaking adventurous missions. Some could as well happen from casual places like bus stops, street joints, parties and even housewarming events.
When the duo of my couple guests today received invitation to their friend’s housewarming ceremony, they simply would not have thought that it was for a life changing adventure. Their mission amongst other things was to simply provide the best of support system for their beloved friend who was doing something quite noble.
Unknown to them, they were soulmates waiting to meet each other. Hardly had they set their eyes on each other before their love chords struck. With genuine intention comes genuine results. The rest as you may have rightly guessed is now history.
It’s been nine years of that housewarming event and meeting each other. Seven years of being Mr and Mrs doing life together. And they seems to be enjoying every bit of the journey together so far.
You want to grab details of this juicy love story, here you have it!
1. Can you take us back to how your love story started?
Mr Alademehin: We met at a friend’s housewarming party in Lagos. I was helping him arrange some things when she came in with one of the guests. We didn’t talk much that day, but I noticed her.
Mrs Alademehin: He actually asked my friend about me after I left. When he eventually got my number, we started talking. It was a simple beginning, but the friendship grew very quickly.
2. What was the moment you knew “this is the one”?
Mr Alademehin: I knew when I realised I could talk to her about anything without feeling judged. She became the person I wanted to share both good and bad news with.
Mrs Alademehin: For me, it was his patience. He never rushed me or forced things. He allowed the relationship to grow naturally.
3. How many years have you been together?
Mr Alademehin: We have been together for 9 years.
Mrs Alademehin: We have been married for 7 years.
4. What has been your secret to keeping the spark alive all these years, especially after the arrival of kids?
Mr Alademehin: We talk a lot… even when the day is stressful, we still find time to talk before going to bed.
Mrs Alademehin: We also try to do things together. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Sometimes sitting outside together is enough.
5. How do you both make each other feel special, even in small ways? What fun habits have stayed with you throughout your marriage?
Mr Alademehin: She knows the little things I like. If she goes to the market and sees something I enjoy, she will bring it home without me asking.
Mrs Alademehin: He likes to make me laugh when I’m upset. Sometimes I will be angry and he will start behaving funny until I forget what I was angry about.
6. How do you handle disagreements or tough moments now, compared to your early years?
Mr Alademehin: We don’t allow arguments to continue for too long. We talk about the issue and move on.
Mrs Alademehin: We have also learned that saying sorry does not make anyone weak. Sometimes you just have to let pride go.
7. What’s one thing your partner still does that melts your heart?
Mr Alademehin: She always makes sure I have eaten before she starts worrying about other things. I always appreciate it.
Mrs Alademehin: He always asks for my opinion before making important decisions. It makes me feel respected.
8. What was one of the biggest challenges you faced together, and how did you overcome it?
Mr Alademehin: There was a time when work was very stressful for both of us. We were barely getting enough time to rest.
9. What advice would you give to younger couples hoping for a lasting marriage?
Mr Alademehin: Be honest with each other. It is easier to build when there is trust.
Mrs Alademehin: Don’t compare your marriage with what you see outside. Every couple has their own story.
10. If you could sum up your marriage in one word or sentence, what would it be?
Mr Alademehin: Peace.
Mrs Alademehin: It is not perfect, but it is ours, and I would choose it again.
