BBNaija Alex Unusual opens up on trauma, abuse that shaped her life

The former housemate of Big Brother Naija (BBNaija), Alex Unusual, has remembered the traumatic background that shaped her.

During a recent interview with the Unpack podcast, the reality star disclosed how she was subjected to harassment and bullying at school by both family members and peers.

Alex described being spanked for providing her aunt’s pigs with clean water to drink. The reality TV personality claimed she was accused of “intentionally trying to kill the pigs” after spending the holidays with her aunt.

“They had flogged me for giving the pigs clean water instead of dirty water. How in the name of the Lord I am supposed to go and get dirty water to go and give something that is living?” she asked.

“I literally washed all their (pigs) buckets and gave them clean water. Then these pigs refused to drink water all day.

“And next thing they came back and said I was trying to kill the pigs. They were like it was intentional. That I knew what I was doing.”

Alex said during her secondary school days, she was “labelled a thief and perceived to be very stubborn”.

The reality star recounted how she was a victim of mob action after accusations of stealing her colleague’s provisions.

“The reason they were able to label me a thief was something they caused. They would punish me through the night and I would become the last person to leave the hostel the next morning,” she added.

“So when we came back and something was missing it was me that they would hold. And again, I am not a good liar. A friend of mine who offended me, I had packed all her provisions and went to hide them. I returned it to her when she finished crying. So they now said ‘It was Alex that stole it’, not ‘Alex that took it’.

“I went to class one day and everybody was standing outside. I got inside and they started to beat me. They asked me ‘Which biscuit did you eat in class today?’ I told them I did not eat any biscuits. I had not even eaten all day. Everybody just landed on me. They now said somebody saw me eating biscuits in class. They opened my locker and found the provisions of one of the seniors in my corner. They started beating me that day and I called my mother and I told her I did not do what they accused me of.

“A friend even asked me if I had a sickness of people who steal without knowing. They said they needed to take me to church and pray for me.

“The next day everyone went to class and as usual I went to dodge. Then the hostel mistress was like she could see a movement inside the hostel. Some students that were down there started searching and I also joined. I joined them because if anything had gone missing they would have accused me. While everyone went back I searched that part everybody avoided and saw one of the girls at the corner. She had white powder all over her body.”