The Daystar Christian Center’s senior pastor, Sam Adeyemi, has given guidance to men who are worried about their “small manhood.”
Addressing his audience on Sunday, the pastor underlined that the physical size of a manhood does not indicate its usefulness.
The 57-year-old brought attention to the ridiculousness of body comparisons by sharing a personal story from his time in high school.
Adeyemi also urged young men to prioritise meaningful relationships, self-acceptance, and personal development.
“One of the major pressures we have is body image problems. It’s terrible, this comparing of your body with mine. Setting standards on what the body should look like and then you find out you fell short. It is so bad,” he said.
“I went to an all-boys secondary school. I still remember the day some of my classmates, they went somewhere and by the time they came back, we now found out what they went to do. They went with a ruler to go measure their private parts and to compare.
“Nothing destroys self-image more than that. It is nonsense. If you are a young guy, let me encourage you because it is all over the internet now. Are they not there? Everywhere you look, you will see either medicine or one Chinese method of elongating your…
“It is a lie, it is not the length that matters but the effectiveness, the skills and love for the other person. So for God’s sake wait till you get married.
“If it is only one person you are doing it with, there will be no need comparing all over the place. Do not let them kill you.”
