‘I lost my virginity at 13’ – Pretty Mike recounts

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Nigerian socialite Pretty Mike has opened up about experiencing sexual abuse during his childhood.

In a recent appearance on The Company of Men podcast, the outspoken figure revealed that he lost his virginity at the age of 13 after being taken advantage of by two domestic staff members.

Reflecting on the increasing awareness and support for male survivors of sexual abuse, Mike shared that the experience deeply affected his understanding of sex.

He also called on parents to remain vigilant and protective of their children, regardless of gender.

“Men have been encouraged to come out to talk about sexual abuse and being taken advantage of sexually at a tender age. I lost my virginity at 13 to my housemaid. Not even one, but two. Did that change my orientation about sex? Yes,” he said.

“Am I coming out to report it to say that something negative happened to me? I think I have decided to let it go, especially at that age. Nowadays, 13 can even be seen as an adult sometimes.For people that were taken advantage at 6,7,8,9,10 it is totally no because they had no idea.

“I always tell parents to pay attention to your kids, not just the females but the males also. Because I have realised that parents are always consider their female children when hiring domestic workers but what about the male child?

“They are all young. There shouldn’t be a double standard. Look out for your kids and make sure nobody takes advantage of both the female and the male.”