Relationship expert Blessing CEO, has talked about how her ex-husband, whom she married when she was just 18 and divorced three years later, shaped her.
Blessing shared her story on Instagram, explaining how she first met her ex-husband at the age of 14, when he was 14 years older than her.
She courageously revealed how he cultivated her and how, up until their paths intersected, she remained a virgin.
The enduring effects of her experience, including the psychological and bodily wounds, were emotionally disclosed by the relationship specialist.
She also talked about how entering early adulthood caused her to miss out on her youth.
Blessing’s divorce proceedings were a lengthy and challenging process, lasting five years and involving threats and societal shame.
However, she said he has emerged stronger and more determined to help others.
She said: “I was 14 to 15 years old when I met my ex-husband who was 14 years older than me. I got married to him when I was 18 and I divorced him when I was 21. He groomed me and I was a virgin. He was the first man I ever met, he groomed me and married me but guess what? I left. That’s why there is a blessing CEO today. I had a son for that man and the first ever scar on my body was my C-section scar.
“I never experienced a youthful phase because I was so young and had to mature quickly. I was never involved in the typical dating scene.”
“Even after I left the man at 21, he stressed me until I was 26 on that divorce matter. It took me 5 years to get a divorce and custody, he threatened me. I had to wait for us to properly get a divorce before I could move on with my life. Even when I left, society shamed me.”
