Toke Makinwa, a popular media personality, has remarked that she disliked her twenties because she spent them focusing on a single relationship.
Toke Makinwa made this statement as she considered her early devotion and life lessons.
The media personality stated on Cocktails and Takeaways that, based on her own experience, she is quick to advise young people against getting married in their early to mid-twenties.
According to Makinwa:
“I don’t think I liked my twenties. I don’t think I knew what I was doing because I was in love with one man in my 20s. I spent my entire 20s following one man.
“If I could turn back the hand of time, I’m grateful that I’m where I am today because my experience has shaped me.
“But I tell young people that you have no business getting married in your early or mid-twenties. Figure yourself out. Know yourself first.”
In a different story, Toke Makinwa discussed relationship red flags and personal development.
During an interview with Madame Joyce, Toke Makinwa outlined specific actions that would cause her to break off contact with a partner.
She included actions like constantly bringing up an ex, drawing parallels to previous relationships, and bringing up an ex.
Toke Makinwa stressed the need of identifying these warning signs, saying that it’s best to reassess the relationship if one partner exhibits them.
“If I meet a guy that runs his ex down, he’s never going to hear from me again. If I meet a guy who talks about his ex consistently, he’s still not over her, and he’s not going to hear from me. If I meet a guy who makes comparisons to where he’s coming from, he’s never going to hear from me.
“Your vagina is not made of gold, what he did to his ex, he can do times two to you.
“While you’re with him, it’s easy for a guy to paint a picture saying ‘she was crazy.’ every girl is crazy in every guy’s book, if my exes talk about me to you, you’d think I’m the mad one because everyone would tell story. I always tell women that nigga going on about how crazy she is is the one that made her crazy.”
