‘I was young and cheating’: Bolanle Ninalowo reveals how he saved his marriage after his infidelity

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Bolanle Ninalowo, a renowned actor, claimed that his adultery nearly caused the breakdown of his marriage. He had to go back after realizing he had lost control over Bunmi, his wife.

On the most recent edition of Chude Jideonwo’s #WithChude, the actor said this. He noted that his wife eventually started to perceive him as an outsider in their home.

Ninalowo said, “The years when I was feeling too young and cheating all day, breaking her heart and everything to the years when I wasn’t there and pursuing my dreams.

“But I forgot this was a human being that was taking records and taking experiences of her life as well. So, I became somebody that she didn’t recognise anymore. At some point, I couldn’t call her to pick up my call. The woman I had control over, I had no more control because she outgrew me.”

The actor admitted that he had to start again in order to restore his marriage, adding that the process took time.

He said, “So, to get her back, I needed to start afresh to detoxify all that I have done. It was a process and I had to go back to the bottom. A lot of people keep failing because they keep jumping from one thing to the other.”