Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa has discussed relationship red flags and personal development.
During an interview with Madame Joyce, Toke Makinwa outlined specific actions that would cause her to break off contact with a partner.
She included actions like constantly bringing up an ex, drawing parallels to previous relationships, and bringing up an ex.
Toke Makinwa stressed the need of identifying these warning signs, saying that it’s best to reassess the relationship if one partner exhibits them.
She said:
“If I meet a guy that runs his ex down, he’s never going to hear from me again. If I meet a guy who talks about his ex consistently, he’s still not over her, and he’s not going to hear from me. If I meet a guy who makes comparisons to where he’s coming from, he’s never going to hear from me.
“Your vagina is not made of gold, what he did to his ex, he can do times two to you.
“While you’re with him, it’s easy for a guy to paint a picture saying ‘she was crazy.’ every girl is crazy in every guy’s book, if my exes talk about me to you, you’d think I’m the mad one because everyone would tell story. I always tell women that nigga going on about how crazy she is is the one that made her crazy.”
Madame Joyce chipped in:
“I feel like have this thing as women where we say it can never be me. We have this it can never be me syndrome”.
Makinwa responded:
“I never say it can never be me because at 6pm that night. I don’t judge people because I don’t understand your journey. I hear and I say, may God give us mercy because I’ve seen how people say it can never be me and life would catch you at 6pm that night. One thing I have learnt is that we’re the greatest judges when it comes to other people, but when it’s our turn, we make a case.”
