Rapper Emeka Akumefule, better known as Blaqbonez, has stated that exploring sexual relationships outside marriage can be acceptable, as the initial spark in most relationships tends to fade with time.
During a recent episode of the In My Opinion podcast, Blaqbonez explained that when a partner is unavailable due to work or travel commitments, it is understandable for the other to seek intimacy elsewhere.
He further stressed that marriage is built on more than physical attraction, noting that an affair cannot replace the emotional and mental bond shared between spouses.
Blaqbonez said: “I don’t mind having an open marriage. Most married couples, you don’t keep having same amount of sex you were having at the beginning. It will reduce.
“If somebody is satisfying her sexually while I’m hustling, touring, I’m not available to be getting intimate with her all the time. That is okay. There’s more to marriage than sex. I don’t mind that you’re sleeping with someone else provided you’re dedicated to me.
“It will be difficult for a random person to just come and match up with what I have put in there. Nobody is just going to get her sexually and also mentally addicted to them. They probably can’t make her laugh the way I do”.
He further proposed that he and his future wife will maintain separate rooms, coming together only for intimacy when mutually desired.
“If I’m even going to get married, I need two rooms. Me and my wife will only meet when we want to have intimacy,” he added.
