Intentional courtship offers a refreshing approach to dating, focusing on building a strong foundation based on shared values and mutual respect.
By following these five steps, you can navigate the dating world with purpose and increase your chances of finding a fulfilling and lasting relationship.
- Know Yourself:
What you want: Think about the kind of partner you’d be happy with. What are your values, goals, and dealbreakers?
What you offer: What makes you a good partner? What are your strengths and weaknesses in a relationship?
- Find the Right People:
Expand your social circle: Join clubs, attend events, and use dating apps (if that’s your thing).
Be intentional: Don’t just swipe – look for people who seem to align with your values.
- Start Conversations:
Be approachable: Smile, make eye contact, and be friendly.
Ask good questions: Go beyond small talk. Show genuine interest in getting to know them.
- Go on Dates (and Pay Attention):
Try different things: Explore your interests together.
Really listen: Pay attention to their words and actions. How do they treat others? Are they kind, respectful, and honest?
- Communicate Openly and Honestly:
Share your feelings: Let them know how you feel as you get to know them.
Be upfront about your expectations: Talk about what you’re looking for in a relationship.
Courtship is about building a strong foundation. Take your time, be patient, and enjoy the process.
