[LOVERS’ CORNER] 9 ways to make him ask for more


Creating a dynamic where he eagerly seeks more time and connection with you involves a blend of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and strategic interaction.

Here are some steps to help make him ask for more of you :

  • Cultivate Intrigue and Mystery

To do this, you need to:

Keep Some Mystery: Don’t reveal everything about yourself at once. Share bits and pieces of your life and experiences over time.

Be Unpredictable: Occasionally change your routine or introduce him to new activities. This keeps things exciting and makes him look forward to what’s next.

  • Show Genuine Interest:

Listen Actively: Pay attention when he talks, remember details, and show that you care about his interests and feelings.

Ask Thoughtful Questions: Engage in meaningful conversations that go beyond the superficial. This deepens your connection.

  • Maintain Independence:

Pursue Your Interests: Continue to engage in hobbies and activities you love. This shows that you have a full life and are not entirely dependent on him for your happiness.

Socialize: Maintain a healthy social life with friends and family. This not only makes you more interesting but also shows that you value various aspects of your life.

  • Be Confident and Self-Assured

Confidence is Attractive: Show confidence in your decisions, opinions, and actions. It’s attractive and makes him respect and desire you more.

Positive Self-Image: Take care of your physical and mental well-being. When you feel good about yourself, it radiates outward.


  • Create Memorable Experiences:

Shared Adventures: Plan fun and unique activities together. These shared experiences create lasting memories and a stronger bond.

Celebrate Milestones: Acknowledge and celebrate special moments, big or small. This creates a positive association with your presence.

  • Maintain a Playful Attitude:

Flirt and Tease: Light-hearted flirting and playful teasing can add excitement and intimacy to your interactions.

Sense of Humor: Share laughter and enjoy fun moments together. A good sense of humor is a major attraction factor.

 Show Appreciation and Affection:

Express Gratitude: Regularly show appreciation for the things he does. This makes him feel valued and respected.

Physical Affection: Small gestures like holding hands, hugs, and kisses create a sense of closeness and warmth.

  •  Communicate Effectively:

Be Honest: Open and honest communication builds trust. Share your thoughts and feelings openly while being respectful of his.

Respect Boundaries: Understand and respect each other’s boundaries. This creates a safe and comfortable environment for the relationship to grow.

Encourage His Growth:

Support His Goals: Encourage him to pursue his passions and goals. Being a supportive partner makes him see you as an integral part of his life.

Challenge Each Other: Inspire each other to grow and improve. A relationship that fosters mutual growth is fulfilling and enduring.

By incorporating these strategies, you create an environment where he naturally wants more of your time and presence. Building a relationship on mutual respect, genuine interest, and a bit of mystery keeps the connection strong and continuously exciting.