Bishop Funke Felix-Adejumo, co-founder of Agape Christian Ministries, has discussed the value of embracing intimacy shamelessly, especially for African women who might experience social pressure to repress their urges.
Adejumo counselled women to break away from constrictive cultural standards and express their wants to their spouses.
In order to encourage a healthier and more positive attitude towards sex, she also recommended that couples express themselves more during intimacy.
She said: “I like s3x. If I don’t, how will I have children? And you are just pretending you like s3x. African culture has told you that a woman should not show that she enjoys s3x, otherwise they will call her a prostitute.
“When the man is touching you, you’re happy. So, the first thing is to disbelieve that in your mind, otherwise, you’ll be causing problems in your marriage.
“Tell yourself, s3x is good. I want my husband. And when you’re having s3x with your husband, don’t pretend and just be like missionary. Talk, moan, s3x is good.
“You cannot believe that African mentality. Let’s change it. The devil is using it to destroy marriages because that’s the highest level of intimacy.
“Tickle your husband, touch him when he’s making love to you. When he finishes, tell him he did a good job.”
