Edo State First Lady, Betsy Obaseki, has encouraged women hoping to have children not to view themselves as barren but as fruitful and proud mothers of children who will arrive in God’s time.
She made this statement during a Zoom meeting with Edo women in the Diaspora over the weekend, where she was joined by Ifeyinwa Ighodalo, wife of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) candidate for the upcoming September 21 governorship election in Edo State.
The Edo First Lady’s remarks came in response to a viral video featuring Senator Adams Oshiomhole, in which he made comments about her childlessness. Addressing more than 200 women from various countries, Obaseki reminded them that every person is created by God for a purpose.
She stated, “As human beings, it’s crucial to seek deeper perspectives and meaning in life. What truly matters is finding our purpose. God has created each of us to fulfill a unique role, and once we embrace that mindset, we can be at peace with our lives and focus on fulfilling God’s plan, rather than being affected by hurtful remarks.”
Offering words of comfort to women who have experienced miscarriages, lost babies, or still have no children after enduring such traumas, Obaseki said, “You are not barren. If anyone labels you as such, don’t be disheartened. You are fruitful and, like me, a prospective mother of healthy children. The children will come in God’s perfect timing. So, hold your head high and live joyfully with what God has already given you. Be grateful for a loving spouse, like I have, and for the support of family and friends.”
She further advised the women to embrace their current lives and find fulfillment, emphasizing that motherhood is just one way to be fruitful. “Being fruitful goes beyond childbearing. It’s about making a positive impact on society and changing lives. Women can fulfill God’s purpose in many ways, not just through motherhood.”
She concluded by encouraging the women to focus on their purpose, leave aside the pressure of childbearing, and trust that in due time, things will fall into place.